Listen in as Christine summarizes the main lessons and blessings we all gained from 2018 and forecasts what is up for us in 2019. She then guides you through a beautiful meditation to gracefully let go of 2018 and begin co-creating 2019.
This call is about using a creative process to create vibrations high enough to reshape your story. Tiffany feels blocked by her past. She has done the mental work but still feels blocked emotionally. Remember, it’s never too late to reshape your story. Don’t think just because Tiffany is a young woman, as an older man or woman you can’t reshape your story. It’s not too late for you.
Natalie Jill is a Fat Loss Expert turned high performance coach. She helps people across the globe reach their health, business and life goals BY empowering them to level up and create everything from nothing.
This call is about the importance of soothing and nurturing ourselves so we feel safe. Caller, Sally, doesn’t feel motivated and wants guidance on how to break the pattern of feeling down. When we feel safe, we automatically feel more creative and relaxed. We have the opportunity to restore and replenish ourselves and when we feel safe, we are also able to process and heal wounds and traumas.
Ajit was born to a middle-income family in Jaipur and grew up in an extended family of 23 other people under one roof. Space and money were scarce, and so as a little boy, he dreamt of abundance.
This call is about sorting through emotional traffic and protecting yourself energetically. If you feel like an empath or a sensitive person, chances are you are someone who has emotional intelligence and is impacted by the energy and emotions of others. If family members or friends call you sensitive or over-dramatic, this episode with Tiffany provides guidance on how to deal with your empathic gift.
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When empaths or highly-sensitive people are flooded with other people’s emotions, it’s like traffic that slows us down. It can make us more triggerable, and it takes us longer to see clearly what is truly triggering us. We have to get out of traffic emotionally. We do that by processing our own feelings and by setting emotional boundaries. So, we can be compassionate with people but not sympathetic.
The more we can be in compassion, not sympathy, the more we can keep our emotional immune system up and be emotionally healthy. If highly-sensitive people don’t process their own emotions or discern what are their emotions or someone else’s, they can be highly-reactive, a.k.a. dramatic.
When we keep ourselves emotionally healthy, we are less likely to be drained by other people’s emotions. It’s important not to isolate yourself to protect yourself. Being alone is replenishing but we all need other people. Don’t fear people or connections.
It is super important to let go of the limiting belief that you think something is wrong with you. You need to update your beliefs and know that nothing is wrong with you. You need to find your tribe.
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● Are you often called out for being over-sensitive or being dramatic or reactive?
● Do you find yourself drained or triggered by people who are making choices you are not aligned with?
● Do you feel like the black sheep of your family or that no one really gets you?
● Do you tend to attract emotionally unavailable people into your life?
● Do you find solace in isolation and feel safer being alone?
● When it comes to feeling, do you have intense feelings and overwhelm and unbearable sadness?
Tiffany is feeling lost and overwhelmed and feels like something is wrong with her. She asks for guidance on how she can embrace her empathy.
Tiffany’s Key Insights and Ahas:
● People tell her she is too sensitive.
● She feels she is different from her other family members.
● She is affected by other people’s actions.
● She feels things very deeply.
● She navigates through everyone else’s feelings.
● She is drawn to people who are ‘shut down.’
● She feels isolated and lonely at times.
● She is triggered by certain experiences.
● She doubts her thoughts and feelings.
● She is a people pleaser.
How to Get Over It and On With It:
● She needs to protect her energy and learn how to reduce the amount of traffic on her emotional freeway.
● She needs to upgrade her spiritual hygiene and read books about being an empath.
● She needs to clean up her own unprocessed feelings.
● She should do the emotional release work in Expectation Hangover.
● She needs to listen to her inner voice.
● She needs to let go the belief that something is wrong with her and own her gifts.
Takeaways For You:
● Read books written for empaths.
● Find out what the best spiritual hygiene practices for you are.
● Don’t people-please or think you get your value from making other people feel better.
● Process and clear your emotional traffic.
● Join my Personal Mastery Course to meet like-minded people and to start meeting your tribe.
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Listen in as Christine and her partner, Stefanos, answer listener questions about dating and relationships. Topics discussed are: what to do when someone cheats in the relationship, how to get over the pain of being single and dating advice for introverts.
This call is about friendship and making friends as an adult. Today’s caller, Nicole, wants to move past a break up with a childhood friend and make trusting, intimate connections and friendships in her adult life. As adults, we have more communications strategies but we also have longer stories about what we judge as not good enough. This episode highlights the opportunities that present themselves when we feel, deal, and heal with imprints from our past.
In this episode, Christine explains why we feel lonely and gives you three different pathways to deal with (and overcome) loneliness this holiday season.