Over It And On With It

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CC: The Art of the Impossible with Steven Kotler 0

Jan 23, 2021

In this episode you'll learn why everyone (even you!!) is wired for peak performance. Steven Kotler New York Times bestselling author and peak performance expert—on a science-based approach to unleash our full potential and succeed against all odds. During a time when it’s easy to give up, Kotler teaches us how to exceed our limitations with his newest book, The Art of the Impossible. Kotler decodes the secrets of elite performers, including top CEOs, Olympic athletes, and respected artists—many of whom his organization Flow Research Collective trains. Listen and learn the role of flow in pulling off the impossible, how to become exponentially more productive, and how to innovate in mind and matter.

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EP 280: How Working Too Hard on Yourself is a Block to What You Desire with Dani 0

Jan 20, 2021

This call is about self-acceptance and leading a fully-expressed life. Dani calls in looking for guidance on how to get out of the funk she is in. She feels unmotivated and burned out. But, as we discuss, the beautiful thing about burnout is that it is a wake-up call to tell us we are living in an unsustainable way. It is in the unknown that magical opportunities present themselves. When we plan and control everything there is little room for the universe to surprise us.

[For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode280]

A lot of us are committed to personal growth. But, we must be aware of when we are working on ourselves a little too much and sometimes just let it be. Be in radical self-acceptance. Be in a place of just accepting where we are and shifting our energy into one of love and gratitude. It is the balance between not brushing stuff under the rug and living in denial but not overworking ourselves so we are always a personal growth project.

When we grew up in a house where there was a lot of uncertainty or chaos there is a frenetic energy that happens. It is constantly looking for safety and certainty. It can keep us very busy. If you relate to that, I encourage you just to stop and slow down. Because our soul, or the universe, does not give us much momentum on something when it comes from a place of lack. Sometimes we just need to stop and be with ourselves.

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Dani’s Question:

Dani feels a loss of identity, burned out, and unmotivated and would like guidance on how to break free of her funk.

Dani’s Key Insights and Ahas:

She was a full-time musician who started a life coaching business last year.
She feels she has a block around her career.
Her focus on her career is a coping strategy.
She puts a lot of pressure on herself.
She wants to live a balanced life.
She’s done a lot of personal development work.
She is always searching for something and pushing herself.
She hasn’t felt safe in her life.
She has no anticipation for the future.
She feels uncertain.
She has taken many risks in her life.

How to Get Over It and On With It:

Resist the habit of trying to figure everything out.
Embrace uncertainty.
Give herself the gift of feeling safe in the present moment.
Permit herself to just be.
Move out of distraction and into stillness and safety.

Takeaways For You:

Sit in the safety of uncertainty.
Sign up for the Inner Child Workshop.

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CC: Compassion is a Requirement for Health with Dr. Nzinga Harrison 0

Jan 16, 2021

This episode is a hug for your mind and your heart. Well-respected physician and educator, Dr. Nzing Harrison joins Christine to speak about how to cope with all the stress of this year, why compassion is a requirement for your brain and health, how to identify and deal with addiction or unhealthy coping strategies and SO much more. Dr. Harrison is the Chief Medical Officer and Co-Founder of Eleanor Health, a value-based provider of compassionate, comprehensive, outpatient addiction treatment. Approachable and energetic, she has been known to explain medical concepts with an ease and humor that results in her audiences developing understanding of difficult material while having a good time doing it! She has written and presented several articles and workshops on the medical aspects of addiction and other psychiatric disorders, and has consulted on the same topics both nationally and internationally. Despite the credentials, she prides herself on being a regular ol’ person who loves regular ol’ people. She will tell you the most important accomplishment of her life is her husband and two teenage sons. Nzinga (yes, first name basis!) is excited to embark on this podcast journey, and can’t wait to answer any and all questions you may have about addictive or other psychiatric disorders.

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EP 279: Moving from Unhealthy to Healthy Relationships with Elizabeth 0

Jan 13, 2021

This call is about breaking out of patterns and unhealthy relationships. Elizabeth calls in asking for daily mantras, actions, and tools to help her feel worthy of a loving relationship. She is struggling with enoughness. She wants to get over a “toxic” relationship from her past and truly embrace, rather than sabotage, the healthy relationship she is in now. We get to the fundamental ouch or significant life event that created the misunderstanding that perpetuates her feelings of not being enough.

[For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode279]

The feeling of not-enoughness is a major human problem. Eventually, we will evolve out of this not-enoughness thinking and raise children differently so we all don’t have to have this major human epidemic. Know that by listening to this show, doing inner work, and feeding yourself the truth, you are doing your part to evolve human consciousness.

Nothing outside of you can fulfill you and nothing external comes to you until you truly know that you are worthy and enough. That being said, we live in an interdependent world. And, although we cannot look to the outside world to make us happy, it is important to feel connected to others and attract and nurture healthy relationships, no matter where we are in our journey.

The brain may confuse familiarity with love because it was wired from an early age to make love an equation. Many learn that if they act a certain way they will get love. Conditional love can feel familiar. But, worthiness is not conditional.

Consider/Ask Yourself:

Do you struggle with not feeling enough?
Have you ever had a “toxic” relationship?
Do you doubt that the people in your life really love you and see you? Do you fear that you will not measure up in some way?
Is there a fierce inner critic that lives inside your head? And, even though you know you should be nicer to yourself, you can’t seem to change your self-talk?

Elizabeth’s Question:

Elizabeth is searching for some daily mantras or actions that will make her feel enough and worthy.

Elizabeth’s Key Insights and Ahas:

She is having difficulty connecting her intellect with her heart.
She feels not enough and that her life is pointless.
She verbalizes the chaos she feels in her mind.
She was in an eight-year “toxic” relationship.
She has “love” attached to feeling a certain way.
She has trouble quieting her inner critic.

How to Get Over It and On With It:

Be in the present moment and feel her feelings.
Stop and breathe when her mind starts racing.
Realize nothing is wrong with her.
Forgive herself for confusing familiarity with love.
Give her inner critic a new job description.
Practice release writing when her inner critic is bratty.

Takeaways For You:

If you struggle with not-enoughness, when you feel it coming on, stop and think that you are hungry for the truth. And then, feed yourself some truth.
Watch your language and watch what you are affirming.
Slow down! Drop in and breathe.
Give things you want to shift a new job description and a new role.
If you want some additional help join my Personal Mastery Course.
Join us for the Be the Queen program.

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CC: Become the Sexually Confident Person You Were Meant to be with A'magine 0

Jan 9, 2021

Christine's guest today is A'magine, a sex educator and author who guides people into sexual empowerment. A'magine has been teaching and speaking about sexuality for over two decades, including her TEDx talk “Owning Your Sexual Power.” She is author of Woman on Fire: Nine Elements to Wake up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power and Sexual Intelligence and co-author of the best-selling classic Lesbian Sex Secrets for Men.

Often conversations about sexuality can push a lot of buttons - this conversation is the opposite of that! You will feel reassured, seen, and empowered with steps to have a more fulfilling sex life!

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EP 278: Break Your Addiction to Negative Thinking with Danielle 0

Jan 6, 2021

Do you know the value of positive thinking but just can’t seem to shift out of negative thinking? This coaching session is about expectations and shifting negative patterns. During this call, we examine Danielle’s past to understand what formed her current expectations and get to the root of why she is sabotaging herself in relationships.

[For show notes go here: Christinehassler.com/episode278]

Any habituated response, feeling, or pattern of behavior you are currently engaged in was created a long time ago and you created it for a reason. If you really want to shift something you must get curious about the origin of it.

Your expectations about what could or could not happen in your present or future life are based on what has happened in your past until you consciously choose to update them. Significant life events and/or repetitive events trigger us to form beliefs. These beliefs cause us to form expectations about life, others, and ourselves which impact our present and create our future.

And, any “negative” pattern we want to change has a payoff and usually can’t be changed overnight. That’s why it is important that we learn what the payoff is and learn how to get it in a more positive way.

While it’s important not to become a victim in your life or be stuck in your story so much so that your past becomes an excuse or scapegoat for why you don’t have what you want, it is important to acknowledge it and understand how it is impacting you.

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Consider/Ask Yourself:

Are you a negative thinker? Do you tend to sabotage things before they even get started?
Is anxiety something you would like to feel less of?
Do you desire a healthy, loving relationship?
Are you the child of immigrants?

Danielle’s Question:

Danielle would like to know how to relieve herself of self-imposed anxiety and negative thinking in relationships and dating.

Danielle’s Key Insights and Ahas:

She has become comfortable with her negative thinking.
She creates a frenzy inside of her.
Her parents got divorced.
She has fun memories of her childhood.
She saw her parents fighting.
She feels she needs to protect herself from being caught off guard.
She used her negative thinking as a shield to feel safe but it also keeps love out.
She is always in fight-or-flight mode.
She is a first-generation Cuban American.
She found her life coach through prayer and intention.
She will change her inner dialogue.

How to Get Over It and On With It:

Identify her negative thinking, thank it for protecting her and ask her mind to help her to determine a true statement for what is happening.
Consider attending the upcoming Personal Mastery Course and the Signature Retreat.
Work with a healer to do some energetic bodywork.
Cut some cords energetically.

Takeaways:

Be aware of what you affirm with your thoughts.
Get curious about your past. What were the repetitive events or significant life events in your past that cause your expectations and how are they affecting your life now?
Anything you would label as negative or a pattern you want to change, identify the payoff, and find a way to get that payoff in a more positive way.
Always approach your growth, development, and healing with love and curiosity. Don’t be afraid to reach out for support.
If you resonated with a lot of what came up in this coaching session, my Personal Mastery Course would be a great next step for you.

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Christine Hassler — Join the Free Over It and On With It Community

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